Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible is a transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less—especially in relationships.
The accidental result of a collaboration by Margaret A. Harrell and Jef Crab, Stop All the Clocks was conceived when Jef commented about Harrell’s An Underground PRINCIPIA: “My biggest concern is that I have no idea how many people will be able to grasp the depth of the principles you describe. It is amazing enough that you take a lifetime of experiences and connect them into a driving force that leads to the realization of one’s purpose. Even more amazing is that you include the most subtle levels of existence that play a role in these processes . . . Most breathtakingly, by reading An Underground PRINCIPIA, the reader can gain the insight that all of this is happening, not in one lifetime, whether human or universal, but in an eternal now. Amazing achievement.”—Jef Crab, An Underground PRINCIPIA review
Why not make that depth accessible? Tell even more stories? Do it in conversations? Reveal tales that neither even knew about the other? Harrell pondered. Why not take the obstacle as a Giant Opportunity? And so this new book was born in conversations on Skype. Miraculously, they needed little editing and fitted neatly into Stop All the Clocks, which Harrell had started writing. Jef stepped in and the conversations that followed sparkled with probing wisdom, as the two simplified ideas, telling of experiences, helping bring about what Jef called a crashing down of the old paradigm.
Let Go, Trust God, Become Who You Were Meant To Be is not a step-by-step guide to fixing your life—it’s a gentle companion for the seasons when nothing makes sense. In these pages, Rebecca Simon offers soulful reflections for anyone sitting in the in-between: between heartbreak and healing, between longing and fulfillment, between who you were and who you're becoming. Written with softness and spiritual depth, this book is for those still praying for clarity, still carrying unanswered questions, still trying to hold it all together. It’s for the one learning to let go—not just of people, but of timelines, expectations, and everything that once defined their worth. With every chapter, you'll be reminded that you haven’t missed your moment, you haven’t been forgotten, and even now—especially now—God is still with you. You're not falling apart. You’re being remade.
You loved hard. You stayed too long. You gave more than you had– and called it devotion. And when it fell apart, you didn't just lose him. You lost yourself. Your judgement. Your instincts. Your ability to trust that you even know what love is anymore. This book is for the woman who is done– but still doesn’t understand why she keeps ending up here. The Feminist Code exposes the invisible programming that taught you to over-give, over-stay, and shrink yourself in the name of being chosen. It isn’t just about relationships. It’s about every room you’ve walked into and made yourself smaller. Every boundary you swallowed. Every time you confused being needed with being loved. It’s about becoming the woman who will never lose herself again. If love has left you questioning your worth, your judgement, or your power– this book will show you exactly what went wrong. And how to make sure it never happens again.
Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible is a transformative guide for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, overthinking, or settling for less—especially in relationships.
The accidental result of a collaboration by Margaret A. Harrell and Jef Crab, Stop All the Clocks was conceived when Jef commented about Harrell’s An Underground PRINCIPIA: “My biggest concern is that I have no idea how many people will be able to grasp the depth of the principles you describe. It is amazing enough that you take a lifetime of experiences and connect them into a driving force that leads to the realization of one’s purpose. Even more amazing is that you include the most subtle levels of existence that play a role in these processes . . . Most breathtakingly, by reading An Underground PRINCIPIA, the reader can gain the insight that all of this is happening, not in one lifetime, whether human or universal, but in an eternal now. Amazing achievement.”—Jef Crab, An Underground PRINCIPIA review Why not make that depth accessible? Tell even more stories? Do it in conversations? Reveal tales that neither even knew about the other? Harrell pondered. Why not take the obstacle as a Giant Opportunity? And so this new book was born in conversations on Skype. Miraculously, they needed little editing and fitted neatly into Stop All the Clocks, which Harrell had started writing. Jef stepped in and the conversations that followed sparkled with probing wisdom, as the two simplified ideas, telling of experiences, helping bring about what Jef called a crashing down of the old paradigm.
Let Go, Trust God, Become Who You Were Meant To Be is not a step-by-step guide to fixing your life—it’s a gentle companion for the seasons when nothing makes sense. In these pages, Rebecca Simon offers soulful reflections for anyone sitting in the in-between: between heartbreak and healing, between longing and fulfillment, between who you were and who you're becoming. Written with softness and spiritual depth, this book is for those still praying for clarity, still carrying unanswered questions, still trying to hold it all together. It’s for the one learning to let go—not just of people, but of timelines, expectations, and everything that once defined their worth. With every chapter, you'll be reminded that you haven’t missed your moment, you haven’t been forgotten, and even now—especially now—God is still with you. You're not falling apart. You’re being remade.
You loved hard. You stayed too long. You gave more than you had– and called it devotion. And when it fell apart, you didn't just lose him. You lost yourself. Your judgement. Your instincts. Your ability to trust that you even know what love is anymore. This book is for the woman who is done– but still doesn’t understand why she keeps ending up here. The Feminist Code exposes the invisible programming that taught you to over-give, over-stay, and shrink yourself in the name of being chosen. It isn’t just about relationships. It’s about every room you’ve walked into and made yourself smaller. Every boundary you swallowed. Every time you confused being needed with being loved. It’s about becoming the woman who will never lose herself again. If love has left you questioning your worth, your judgement, or your power– this book will show you exactly what went wrong. And how to make sure it never happens again.
